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Snackie-poo

Tuesday, June 24th, 2008

So I don’t have much time to write because I need to get to bed, but I had to share this story.

I was working on the computer today, and Joe Mac (Maggie’s nanny/manny) was trying to get Maggie to take a nap before her speech therapy evaluation. She didn’t want to, so she’s just laying in the crib screaming, or so we thought. So, she’s crying, and he goes in to try to give her a bottle to see if she’s hungry. I’m listening on the baby monitor…it goes something like this…

Joe Mac: Hey Maggie, look! I brought you a bo-ttle!

Maggie: MMAAAMAAAAMAAAAMAAAMAAAA!!!!

Joe Mac: Hey, what’s that?

Maggie: AIAIAIAEEEEEEE AIAIAIAEEEEEEE!!!!

Joe Mac: Hey…that’s…MOMMY!!!!

So I run in, and I see Maggie, screaming her head off, with little round deer-looking poo in both hands, and all in her teeth. I mean, all in her teeth. Is this where the phrase “(poo) eating grin” came from?

Joe Mac is panicked, and now, so am I. I grab her, trying to keep a hold of each arm so she doesn’t put more poo in her mouth or on me, and run to the bathroom. I put her in the tub (still in her clothes, that have somehow managed to not be covered in poo), and start frantically trying to figure out what to do. I had Joe Mac get a wash cloth to get most of the poo out of Maggie’s mouth, then I had him her her tooth brush. I got the poo out of her hands, got her clothes off, and started running a bath. She was still screaming bloody murder, as I imagine I would if I had poo in my mouth.

About this time I realized that she had to have dug this poo out of her diaper, because it wasn’t all over everything (not on her clothes, not really in the crib except one tiny smudge, etc.). It wasn’t even on her legs. Just in her hands and teeth.

I wonder if poor Joe Mac will come back on Wednesday…not sure if I would if I were him.

80 chicken feet

Saturday, June 14th, 2008

Maggie’s therapy went really well this week. Here EI said that she can see a huge improvement in Maggie from week to week as far as how much more focused she is, and how much more interested she is in playing. I don’t know if its Maggie getting more comfortable, because she never really seemed uncomfortable. She really does just pay attention more. Like when the EI blows bubbles, Maggie actually turns her head to watch the bubbles as they move, and she ever kind of reaches for them. Before, she just sat there and looked at the EI who was blowing the bubbles.

Also, Maggie is just doing so well with her confidence in walking. She will walk more now when you’re holding on to just one hand, where a week ago she would almost almost just freeze and plop down if you let go of one hand. She’s getting better at standing on her own, and will sometimes do it for a couple of minutes. Tonight, she kind of picked up one foot while standing, and put it down slightly in front of where it was before. I just know that she will be walking soon, and I’m so excited for her. It really makes me feel like I’m going to bubble over.

She’s also gotten to where she likes to jump on the bed, while holding on to someone or something of course. But it is just too cute. She gets really excited, and scrunches her little face up and grins as big as she can. I really think Joe Mac coming over during the day is really helping her. I just cannot thank him enough for all of his help.

I look at her now, and I see less of Tyler than I did before. I don’t know if I really see me so much, but its definitely not as strong a resemblance to Tyler as it was. Maybe that’s because she’s getting more hair :)

Oh! Also, this week, we got some baby pictures of Daisy from the people who gave her to us! Thanks Jerry! He said he sent them to me so that one day, when she comes up to me and asks “Mommy, am I adopted?” I can show her those and set her mind at ease. She doesn’t have to know :)

Daisy as a kitten

Daisy as a big kitty :)

So yes. 80 chicken feet. That is what was covering my dining room table all afternoon. Dried chicken feet, some painted gold or silver, some painted white or black, and some covered in some kind of “tool dip” that makes them look plastic. Some of the chicken feet were not even painted. They just sat in their little ziplock bag on my table, looking gross. Apparently, Maggie thought they looked yummy, because she kept trying to climb out of her high chair to get to them (don’t worry, I didn’t let her get anywhere near them, and I washed and disinfected everything in the general area of the house once they had been removed). So, these painted chicken feet were covered in black skeleton print fabric, and tied with black and purple ribbon or hemp cord. Me, Tyler, Joe Mac, Bob, and Sarah, sitting around the dining room table, wrapping chicken feet. It was craft time on Friday the 13th at our house.

Currently, my husband is likely at the bar, dressed in a frilly blue ankle length nightgown, next to his bandmates who are likely wearing wizards’ capes, silver pantsuits, or dinosaur costumes (or all of thee above). There should be at least 6 people on this stage, which is really just the corner of a small room in the basement of the locals news building, all dressed up and handing out chicken feet or gold spray painted dinosaur toys.

I swear, I could not make this up. I just wanted to make sure I got it down so that I could tell Maggie about it when she was older. What does this say about her father and his friends? For that matter, what does it say about her mother? A mother who participates in this…whatever…because she cannot stand to see people do something half way. If you say you’re going to decorate 80 dried chicken feet and dress up like a drunk college boy at Halloween, then here is an extra pair of scissors and here is a new nightgown from Target, so you don’t mess up any of my good ones. Poor Maggie…there’s no way she’ll grow up “normal”…genetic disorder or not :)

Maybe a little too much bacon

Wednesday, June 11th, 2008

So a quick update while Maggie is sleeping.

Maggie’s eye doctor (ophthalmologist?) appointment went well yesterday. Except that we had to wait over an hour in a hot waiting room full of really loud kids in chairs with no backs that were pushed up against a huge fake flower arrangement that was sticking in the back or our heads, it was great. Really, Maggie was very well-behaved, and super patient, and she was so good when they were checking her eyes. The doctors and nurse said that she needed to teach the other kids how to be such a good patient, and they went on and on about how cute and happy she was. I never get tired of hearing that. Don’t think I ever will. Her eyes are apparently fine, and while she may be a bit near-sighted, they said they think she’s good, and they’ll see her back in 6 months for a follow up.

Now the coolest thing about this appointment was that the ophthalmologist has a really good friend with a son who has WS. He said this friend went to school with him, also an ophthalmologist. The son is in his 20’s, and doing very well. This is the part where I got confused. The doctor either said that the son with WS has 5 children, only one of whom has WS, or that the son with WS is the only one of the friend’s 5 children who has it. I wanted to ask more, but we were so hot and tried, and Maggie had not had a nap all day, and we really wanted to get home. I plan to ask him more the next time we go.

Wow, this update ended up not being so quick.

Tyler’s new band is playing on Friday at the Whig. The band is called “Animal Husband’s Puberty Ritual,” and I think its about the worst band name I’ve ever heard. They’re apparently not going to have any specific style, and not really have an exact roster of members. I guess its going to be a jazzy, psychedelic, techno rock band with a rotating cast. I’m not too upset that I’m going to miss the show on Friday, but I am kind of sad that I went get to see them giving out dried chicken feet. I just want to see what the audience in this small club thinks about a band that doesn’t really have songs and gives them gross, dried, animal parts. These boys have a weird sense of humor.

So, that brings me to me…I’m crazy busy with work, tired of cleaning, thankful for Joe Mac (Maggie’s great “manny”), thankful for my dad (who can fix anything and work for free as my “grunt” happily), aggravated with my husband (who tries, but doesn’t seem to understand everything that I have to handle on a daily basis), in love with all of the new cute things that Maggie is doing, and constantly amazed that I have still not been driven to a breakdown. I’m glad I can get into the mind set of just “get it done”…because I think if I really stopped for too long, I would get stuck in a hole. The good thing, is that I always have Maggie to pull me out if I start getting down. She’s always the light of my life :)

Oh, and I am thankful for bacon crackers. Question: What could be better than a captain’s wafer wrapped in bacon, covered in cheese, and baked? Answer: not much.

Beatled Out

Sunday, June 8th, 2008

A copy of Wii Fit should come with your health insurance. I am totally serious. I played it at Angie and Joe Mac’s house Friday night, and I am seriously obsessed. It is so fun, and I broke a sweet. The best part…my butt and abs hurt today! What could be better. I subscribed to an RSS feed that shows me when it becomes available on any of the major retailer web sites. I must have one! For real, if you don’t like the gym, get one of these! Way worth the money! There is something motivating, yet infuriating, about having a Japanese video game tell you that you’re overweight. And when you step on the board and it goes “ooow!,” you just want to hula hoop until you bring the damn thing!

So Maggie’s renal ultrasound results came back on Thursday…they didn’t see anything of concern! They only checked for kidney structure, not function, but they said everything looked good. We’ll have the tests for kidney function in the next few weeks. Maggie has her eye appointment this Tuesday, so I will update when we find out about that.

Maggie did really great this week with Joe Mac. He is so great with her! He held her hands and they walked all around the house for like 45 minutes. He took her outside, and he worked with her on all of our therapy goals. I was so impressed! He even fed her once. I’m so excited about this. I can actually get some work done, and know that Maggie is getting the attention that she deserves. I love it! She really seems to much more balanced and confident with her standing and walking now, and she just seems to be getting a little more adventurous.

I finally got a couple of projects finished, and hope to have two more done by mid next week. I’m super excited! I do have more new projects coming in, but none of them seem quite as involved as the ones I’ve been working on. Hopefully it will be a little less stressful with the new work than it has been with the latest projects. They’ve all been great projects with great clients, but its just been a lot to handle with Maggie diagnosis and appointments and all the work. It would be great o be a bit less stressed out all the time.

Maggie’s Granny and Grandiddy are getting back from England today! I’m so excited that they finally took the trip, but I will definitely be glad when I know they’re safe back at home. I was proud of myself for not worrying too much while they were gone. I’ve only worried on the days when they were traveling by plane or train, and I was mostly fine with it. When I talked to them yesterday, they said they were about “Beatled out” (they went on a Beatles themed tour). I think they ended up having a great time, though they didn’t like London so much. Too big, too noisy, to fast. I can totally understand. I can’t wait for them to get back and we can see all of the pictures!

More good news…Jonathan and Kate had their baby this week! Jack Sylas (calling him Sylas) was born on Wednesday. He weighed 8 lbs. 6 oz. He is so cute! The perfect combination of Jonathan and Kate as far as looks goes, and really a handsome little man! I was very glad that Mommy and baby were doing well, but even more glad that Sylas didn’t decide to make his appearance two days earlier when his mommy was sleeping on my couch. Congrats to the happy family!

Tyler’s car is having troubles lately. Its leaking oil, we replaced the battery yesterday, and now it won’t start. Turn the key and nothing happens. No noise, nothing. So, he is driving the Mustang, which leaves me with no car. Not that I have to go anywhere most days, but the next few weeks are full of times where I’ll need to have a car. I hope this gets resolved quickly. I know the Infiniti has like 300,000 miles on it, but I just need it to last until we get into a new house. We can’t afford to get a new car right now. Keep your fingers crossed that “TwInfiniti 1″ pulls through!

Here are some recent pictures for your viewing pleasure :)

Hungry Maggie

Maggie sitting on her car. She hasn’t figured out how to make it move yet.

This is the Daddy bird who built a nest in our fern. His babies have hatched, and now I can get back to saving my pitiful fern without a bird coming after me!

Maggie hanging out with Great Aunt Trish. Trish LOVES babies, and especially loves Maggie! Maggie wanted to get at her glasses :)

(l to r) Maggie, Avery, and Lily in baby prison during our vacation to Greenwood.

Why do the girls always attack the boys?

Angry Maggie

Daisy, who wishes I would put the camera down and go get that furry tail thing for her to play with

v-a-c-a-tion

Monday, June 2nd, 2008

So we just got back from our vacation. It was tons of fun…not really restful and relaxing, but still very fun.

Maggie has a new “manny”…her uncle/self-proclaimed Godfather Joe Mac is here with her right now playing. He will hopefully be coming by several days every week to watch her and play with her while mommy works. I’m so excited about this!

Things are pretty crazy here right now, but I wanted to put up a little update. Maggie has her renal ultrasound tomorrow, EI on Thursday, and maybe her speech and OT evaluations this week. She’s so close to walking…she’ll walk if you hold both of her hands, and she seems like she’s balancing well, but she freezes when you let go of a hand. I think we’ll get it soon. She’s also eating table food more often now. Over vacation, she ate pasta, chicken, banana, cake and ice cream, potato salad, and some fish. Now she’s not much a fan of her baby food anymore, which means mommy needs to learn to cook.

Will get a more detailed update soon :)

12 month well visit, EI, and family birthday party

Sunday, May 18th, 2008

(post about trip to Kentucky is below this one…I posted them at the same time)

So the day after we got back from Kentucky was Maggie’s first birthday! She had a great day, and even got some french fries and ice cream at dinnertime. She was a very happy little baby. Wait…excuse me…Big Girl :)

On Thursday, we had her 1 year old well visit with the pediatrician. It was the first time we had seen her since the diagnosis. Maggie is now off the charts (off on the bottom, not the top) for her length (below 3%), and barely on the chart for weight and head circumference (5%). Dr. Shealy said we’d start using the WS growth chart, and recommended we give her some Carnation Good Start mixed with some milk for extra calories. I told her I didn’t really want to start milk until we found out about Maggie’s calcium levels (waiting for that referral), but that I would give her a little skim milk. I’m somewhat lactose intolerant, and that’s all I can drink anyway.

I also asked about Maggie’s deer pellet looking poo, and Dr. Shealy said she may be constipated. She said we should give her prunes and prune juice every day. Now, I read somewhere that constipation and kidney problems go hand in hand. We’re still waiting on the referral to get the kidney ultrasound, but I was wondering if any of the WS mommies knew if constipation was a sign of kidney problems. Let me know if you have any insight, and I’ll be pestering the pediatrician about that referral.

Otherwise, Maggie did well at the appointment. On her developmental checklist, the only things I couldn’t check “yes” on were things we already knew she had issues with, so nothing new there. She even did well when she got her MMR and Chicken Pox shots, so great visit!

We got back home just in time for her EI appointment. We discussed the findings in Kentucky, and I told her that Dr. Mervis recommended speech and OT. She seemed very cooperative, even though they had determined that Maggie didn’t really need either one. She is supposed to be getting back to me on the referrals and evaluations.

On Friday, Adela Pearl Smith was born at 2:43 PM! Brad and Amy are now parents of a beautiful baby girl! We got to go meet her, and hang out with Brad and Amy a little while before Maggie and I had to leave for Greenwood.

On Saturday, Maggie had her family party at my parents’ house. Tyler couldn’t come because of work. My mom and Tyler’s mom did all of the planning, and took care of everything, which was so amazing, I would have never been able to plan it with everything going on. The party was wonderful, and Maggie has a wonderful time! I’ll try to post pictures later when I get them off the camera.

Unbriddled Spirit…the tale of our trip to Kentucky

Sunday, May 18th, 2008

I’m finally making myself sit down and post about our trip to Louisville, because I cannot let the week end without getting it done. My intention si just to share how well Maggie did with the appointment, and I hope that no one takes offense or sees it as bragging. We know how truly blessed we are to have Maggie doing so well, and we are thankful every day for that. If you want the overview (shorter version), skip to the last couple of paragraphs. Sorry I’m so long winded :)

Cute Maggie, day before the trip

We left super early last Sunday (May 11)…super early for us anyway. I was up at 4 trying to finish packing, check the weather (tornado warnings…yay), and get the house looking pretty in case anyone came to look at it while we were gone. My mom was a huge help, coming down at the last minute the day before to help me out while Tyler worked. I don’t know if we would have gotten everything done and ready to go without her. Thanks mom!

We got on the road to go get Tyler’s parents’ car about 6, since the Mustang is not really the best car for two adults and a huge baby seat for long trips. Thanks Kanda and Raymond for the Impala! We left their house around 8:30, and hit the road! Maggie slept a lot, and did really well on the drive. It ended up being a pretty nice drive, with lots of room to spread out, a pretty chill Maggie, and me and Tyler fighting for the driver seat. We stopped several times to let Maggie play on her blanket and stretch her legs. Tyler was super excited to see Kentucky, and to visit a state that did not secede from the Union (only the second state he’s been to that wasn’t part of the Confederacy). I was really surprised with how well Maggie did being strapped into the seat for about 11 hours. She’s such a road trip master…we were so proud of her!

Tyler spent the day looking for blue grass. This is as blue as we found.

We got to the hotel at about 5PM, which I thought was pretty good time considering. Hotel room was alright, but the jacuzzi tub was totally worth the price of the room. It could have been a closet containing only that tub and a cot, and I would have been happy. So Tyler left with the car to go find a grocery store to pick up body wash for me (forgot mine) and some dish detergent for washing bottles. He was gone forever! Turned out that he got kind of lost and went to a grocery store like 5 miles away. But, when he got back, he had beautiful purple flowers for me! Happy Mother’s Day to me! Maggie and I took a bath in the jacuzzi tub, and Maggie loved the bubbles and the jets! Tons of fun. We all went to bed really early Sunday night, even Maggie who had slept most of the day in the car. It was a good night :)

We get up Monday morning. I got up early, got everything ready, got Tyler and Maggie up, and still had time to spare. I wanted to leave like an hour early, even though the hotel was literally 4 blocks from the University. Tyler said no. So, I decide to trim Maggie’s nails, so she doesn’t claw a researcher to death. Bad idea. She wouldn’t hold still, and I totally cut off a chunk of skin on her thumb. She didn’t seem hurt, and didn’t seem bothered by it so much, but it was bleeding pretty bad. I tried to keep her from putting it in her mouth, and keep her from getting it all over both of us. Thank goodness for the Tide To Go pen, or we all would have looked like we had just hacked up a small family. Tyler and I tried to get it to stop bleeding, to no avail, and finally left the hotel 10 minutes before we were supposed to be there, with a bloody child and a super freaked out mommy.

So we get there. Maggie is fascinated with all of the people, I’m fascinated with the bulletin board of children’s pictures (kids with Williams Syndrome, I assume), and Tyler is fascinated with the toys. After a few minutes, we meet Dr. Mervis. She seemed really nice, and went over all the paperwork, forms, and details with us. Then, we start Maggie’s evaluation. Maggie did great in most things. She picked up a cloth that was hiding a toy, in order to get to the toy she knew was under there. She banged two objects together. She put a lot of things in her mouth, including a spoon (which was the only thing she was supposed to put in her mouth). Her problems were picking things up with her pincer grasp (thumb and index finger, which we’re working on in EI), and using objects appropriately (like rolling a ball, or pushing a car and saying “vroom”). I attribute that last one to me and Tyler…I don’t think we’re ever rolled a ball to her, or pushed a car and said “vroom.” I don’t even think we have a toy car. We will be remedying this situation soon. Maggie also didn’t stack blocks, but again, no blocks in our house. Just a bunch of toys that tell her colors in multiple languages. She now has blocks (birthday presents from mommy & daddy and Pappa & KK), and the multi-lingual color toys are put away.

After that, we went over to the “Infant Cognition Lab” for some fun research-y stuff. Not sure if I’m supposed to write what the actual test was, but it was basically testing Maggie’s ability to recognize individual words in a spoken language, rather than just hearing the “adult speak” (waah wah waah) from Charlie Brown. At least that was my understanding of it. So, Maggie sits on my lap in a room with just us and a TV screen. I honestly wasn’t paying much attention to the language…just noticing the gradients on the graphics. I need to get away from Photoshop more often. Anyway, so we get done, and go back into the other room, and they tell us that Maggie recognized the words, which was really amazing. We were so excited that Maggie did so great! She now has a little t-shirt as a souvenier of the experience :)

Then, Maggie got to look at some faces upside down, but she was getting kind of sleepy and fussy. So, after that, we took Maggie for a ride around the neighborhood so she could nap and so Tyler and I could get some KFC in Kentucky. Just fyi, it didn’t taste any different. We drove around for a while, and got the hang of navigating around the hotel and University as we were just driving in big circles. We got back about an hour later, with full bellies and a rested Maggie.

When we got back, I talked to a psychology grad student about being a stressed out mom of a child with Williams Syndrome. We determined that I’m doing well with Maggie’s diagnosis so far, but that I just have too much going on and worry too much. At least that’s what I think, and what I think she agreed with. Maybe I’m pushy and presumptive. While I did that, Maggie was filmed playing with a grad student. Tyler watched, and talked to the mom and dad of another little girl who was there seeing Dr. Mervis. We went back to the Infant Cognition lab and Maggie got to look at faces right side up. Nothing exciting to report there that I know of. We went back to the office, and Maggie was filmed playing with me. Maggie actually had to take a poo about halfway through, and spent the last half of the time standing against the table and grunting. Go Maggie! We actually realized later, after talking to her pediatrician, that Maggie has some constipation issues, so she was constipated on camera. That will make her so happy one day, to have that documented on video. More about that on the next post.

Dr. Mervis had a meeting so we just hung out with the grad students for a while, and we put Maggie in her Pack’N'Play to take a nap. When Dr. Mervis got back, we met with her in her office. We filled out some questionnaires (with Dr. Mervis’s patience and help, because my brain was fried at that point). Then she she gave us the scoop on Maggie.

Start reading here if you wanted to skip to the short(er) version

Dr. Mervis said that Maggie is doing fantastic for a child with Williams Syndrome. Her gross motor skills (crawling, walking, sitting up, etc) are in the normal range of where they should be for a child her age without Williams Syndrome, which means that she is doing exceptionally well for a child with it. Her main area that needs attention is in fine motor skills, and Dr. Mervis recommended that she get occupational therapy to work with her on that. Using objects appropriately and using her pincer grasp were the big things. She also said that children with Williams Syndrome often do not learn to gesture like a typical child. So, we need to work with her extra hard on learning to point, wave, and make gestures. Her speech is going well, but she said she could use extra attention on that as well, and recommended speech therapy. She said that Maggie is babbling well, making lots of consonant sounds, and that her use of variegated syllables is very good (that means she can say things like “goey” or “shenaaa” instead of just “mama” or “dada”). In both fine motor and verbal skills, Maggie is doing great for a child with Williams Syndrome, and Dr. Mervis seemed to think that she had the potential to do even better with some extra help.

Dr. Mervis also gave us some great info about WS myths. She said that not all children with WS are musical, and she thinks it has more to do with the child and the family than WS, and doesn’t want parents to get their hopes up that their child will be a musical genius. Since our families are pretty musical and artistic anyway, Maggie has a chance of being musical and artistic, but her chances aren’t elevated because of the WS. She also said that its not true that all children with WS are really happy all the time. She said they can almost always be described as “delightful,” because they are often very friendly and fun, but that they also have lots of problems with anxiety and get pretty worked up. She said that Maggie is truly a happy baby, and that its due to her personality, not the WS. She also doesn’t seem to have much anxiety, which is also good news. We were thrilled at hearing this, because we have always thought she was a very happy child, but we were starting to wonder if it was just because of her syndrome. Pretty much everyone there said that Maggie was so sweet and so happy, and we heard that she had the office abuzz when she first got there, because she was so happy and easy going.

In general, Maggie is near the top of the development scale for children with Williams Syndrome, and is doing just about as well as she could be. She is atypical for a child with WS, and has a very good chance of being in the lower average intelligence range, as long as she keeps developing at a good rate. She won’t regress or hit a plateau like what happens with some other syndromes, but worse case scenario is that her development doesn’t continue at its current pace. I feel like if she’s done this well with Tyler and I not really knowing what we were doing, and her doing most of it on her own, that there’s no reason to not shoot for having her get to “average” average intelligence.

We were so glad to hear all of the good news, and literally left the University on cloud nine. We pretty much stayed on cloud nine all night and all the way home the next day. We were so excited about the visit that Tyler and I completely forgot that Tuesday was our anniversary until Kanda called that afternoon and told us “Happy Anniversary.” Maggie did great on the way home, and even got to play in the grass some at the welcome center in North Carolina. She loved it. All in all, it was a fantastic trip. We really felt like a huge weight had been lifted, and were so glad that we got confirmation of what we were optimistically hoping for.

We decided that the next time we go, we’re going to take a few extra days to do some sight-seeing and make it kind of a vacation. It was so much in such a short time, and we really wanted to go to the Louisville Slugger Museum and a distillery or two, so that’s the plan for next time. And I’ll definitely bring some bubble bath.

So, yay Maggie!

Happy Birthday Maggie!!!

Thursday, May 15th, 2008

So I actually wrote this yesterday, but ran out of time in the day to post. I’ll be writing all about Maggie’s trip to Kentucky in the next few days, but wanted to go ahead and get this up for my little one :)

Happy Birthday Maggie!

One year ago today, you came into the world and changed our lives forever. You entered the world screaming like someone had ripped your arm off, and you kept screaming for the next 3 hours. You screamed so loud and so much that the women in the nursery (who see newborns all day, every day) were overheard commenting that “that Brunson baby….she’s a screamer!” You looked like a little sharpei, all wrinkly and scrunched up in the face. You were so tiny and thin, and you looked like you would break if a breeze went by. You were feisty, and had so much energy. You were everything I had ever dreamed of and more.

Now, you’re a year old. You’re not an infant anymore, and you’re quickly becoming a toddler. This has been the most wonderful year of my life, simple because you have been in it. You get me through the day, and make my life brighter every minute. You amaze me every day, and constantly surprise me with all of the wonderful, cute things that you do. You are the greatest gift I have have received, and the greatest work of art I could ever hope to create. I love you more than you will ever know.

Happy first birthday baby girl :)

Happy Birthday to…uhhhh garbble garbble blah blah babies!

Tuesday, May 6th, 2008

I’m sitting her praying that Flash will un-freeze itself soon so that I don’t lose all of the work I’ve done over the past hour. Why can’t I remember to hit “save” more?! Its been 10 minutes of waiting…and I think I may have to accept that its gone.

So Maggie is doing great…she started standing up on her own in the past week! She only does it for a few seconds usually, but today she stood up for a whole minute. I was so amazed. She just all of a sudden decided that she needed to stand. She gets so excited when I clap for her, but she gets way more excited when her daddy claps. She just gets this huge grin on her face and throws her arms up in the air. Sometimes, she even claps for herself. I love it! That sweet little grin gets me through the day.

She has started throwing tantrums a lot. She just gets so angry that she screams and shakes and gets all red and cries. Her whole body will be red by the time I figure out a way to calm her down.

We had our first showing of the condo today. It looked as perfect as I could get it, and I hope the people liked it. I’m sure we’ll have many more showings, and I don’t want to get my hopes up, but I still would love to know how it went. Our realtor is going to try to get some feedback from the other realtor. (See the bottom of this post for pictures and links to the listing)

We’re going to Kentucky this weekend to see Dr. Mervis. I have been busy trying to get all of the medical records and everything together that we need for the trip. I’m getting so nervous. We’ll see how Maggie does in the car for 10 hours. Our family members have been so thoughtful and generous in helping make this trip happen, and I cannot thank them enough. We are so blessed to have such wonderful, supportive family :)

Birthday Party

So about Maggie’s birthday party last Saturday…it was a joint party for Maggie (bday May 14), and Lily (bday April 21). Since Sylvia and I found out we were both pregnant at the same time, we had talked about joint birthday parties. Both girls get their own family parties, but we thought it would be fun to have a party together for our friends to attend.

So, on Saturday morning, Angie, Sylvia and I took the girls to get their pictures made. It would so cute! Lily, who is walking, would not sit still, and kept getting up and trying to escape. Maggie, on the other hand, just sat there, smiling, fascinated by the camera. She’s such a ham! She did get upset once when she heard a baby in the next room crying, but she got better as soon as the baby stopped. We got some precious pictures! Lily was so animated, and made all kind of funny faces and gestures. Maggie was just the sweetest thing in the world, sitting there smiling and watching Lily and the lights.

The part started at 1, and, as usual, we were late. We got there about 1:15. We got the girls undressed, and got on their sunscreen. Maggie was hating it, and we got a picture of her with a sunscreen mohawk, courtesy of mommy and uncle Mark. Avery, who was born after Lily and before Maggie, and his mommy and daddy showed up a short time later. It was so funny, seeing all the babies together! Lily was every where, and into everything, and making noises and faces. She’s also the biggest of the three, in height and weight. Avery is kind of chunky, with the sweetest rosy cheeks and beautiful eyes. He sat there watching the girls, completely fascinated. He did get annoyed with them after a while, because they were getting in his face a lot and taking things from him. Maggie tended to stay away from the other two most of the time, and really only seemed interested in them on occasion. She mostly wanted to clime up all of the adult’s legs, and find someone who would pick her up. She didn’t have much trouble finding someone, and she would just grin as big as she could and then proceed study everything about them, from hair to earrings, to nose, etc.

So, we finally get the babies in the little kiddie pool we got for them. They were all a bit awkward at first, and Maggie was just studying the water. The only other time she’s in water is for bath time, and she seemed confused by this situation. After a while, they all kind of played together, and seemed to be having a good time. A train went by (the track is literally next to the yard), and Maggie flipped out. I just grabbed her out of the pool, without drying her off, ran into the garage, and held her ears while rocking her back and forth. Tyler came in and helped calm her down. I felt so horrible. I knew the train was coming, and I knew that she sometimes has issues with the loud noises, but it didn’t occur to me until I saw her face turn red (pre scream routine for Maggie). Sometimes, she’s fine with loud noises…sometimes she absolutely loses it. I wish I could figure out why.

So, they kids got out of the pool, and Rowan (bday Oct 06) and her mommy and daddy show up. Rowan was so sweet! She played in the pool a while, and when they were trying to get her out, she kept saying “I wanna go in da waduh!”

Then we let the girls get into their cakes. Angie got them individual tiny turtle cakes with green and black icing. Lily went nuts on her cake, just grabbing messy handfuls and smearing it all over her. Maggie took a little with her hand, and licked it and studied it, before looking over at Lily and deciding that she needed to shove hers in her mouth and smear it all over her body too. It was so cute! Maggie was really tired, as she had not had a nap all day, and was getting pretty fussy towards the end of it.

After the cake, the girls got their baths and then opened their presents. They got so many presents! I was amazed at everyone’s generosity. They got tons of books and some cute little toys. Tyler and Russel helped the girls with the unwrapping, and that was just too sweet. I think the daddies enjoyed it as much as the girls.

That was pretty much the end of the party. Everyone started going home, and we gave out wallet photos of the girls from that morning. I think everyone had a great time, and, as always, it was mostly due to the fantastic hostess skills of miss Angie (and some super cute babies!) :)

Here are some pics of the party:


Maggie eating her cake


green beard the pirate…YAR!


what is this thing that i am in?


sunscreen mohawk!

Here are some links to the condo listing on different sites….

ReMax
our agent’s site

Ready for a break now…

Friday, May 2nd, 2008

So I haven’t updated this in a while, mostly because I’ve had about zero down time (until tonight at least). I have been working like crazy, getting the condo ready to put on the market, getting Maggie’s doctor’s appointments and medical records, getting ready for Maggie’s birthday party, getting ready for the trip to Kentucky in one week, and taking care of Maggie. Condo went on the market today, even though everything is still not done. Work is crazy hectic.

I did go out with the girls tonight, and had a fantastic time! Thanks to my ladies who definitely gave me a much needed break! Also thanks to my great babysitters this week…ya’ll are my angels :)

Maggie had her Early Intervention evaluation and goal setting thing today. The two girls came out and played with Maggie and talked to me. They were great, and they thought Maggie was doing great. They noted that she can “pull to stand, lower down, crawl, is interested in people (shocker!), shake a rattle, move an item from hand to hand, and communicate with sounds and eye contact.” They said I should start using basic sign language for basic ideas like “more” so that she can communicate her meanings without using words, so I guess I need to learn some sign language. Our “EI” (as they refer to themselves) will come once a week for…I have no idea how long…maybe until Maggie is 3. We set our goals…Maggie should be walking independently, have a vocabulary of 10-15 words, and be able to put things in a container in the next 6 months. She’s close to walking now, but really doesn’t want to put anything in a container that is not her mouth, so we’ll see how that goes. Her vocabulary, I have no idea if we’ll make it. We’ll see.

Maggie’s 1 year well visit is set for May 15th, and her ENT appointment is May 19th, so that means the only appointments I have left to schedule are her kidney ultrasound, vision test, and blood and urine tests for calcium levels (which they may do at the well visit). So yay!

I’ll post the finished condo pics as soon as I get time to breathe :)